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Wednesday, April 30, 2008

How Would The First Explorers of Hawaii React To Hawaiian Wedding Ceremonies?

James Cook was the most significant of the European explorers to visit Hawaii, because it was he who recorded its existence. James Cook was a captain in the Royal Navy, and of his many achievements, another significant effort in cartography was the first mapping of Newfoundland. James Cook made two major visits to Hawaii, and unfortunately died there. One of his minor vessels was stolen by a lesser Hawaiian chief, and for ransom, James Cook kidnapped another minor chief. In an outrage, the natives of the island fought back, and killed him.

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Christian weddings and marriage in Europe was a detailed ceremony, and still is; it requires government and legal contracts, licenses, and involvement. Whether the first visitors in Hawaii were Irish, Spanish, or British, the wedding ceremonies of the Hawaiians would have caused immediate shock; because there were none. Not officially anyway. The different wedding ceremonies would vary from tribe to tribe, or island from island. Some of the traditional wedding rituals may have extended for days, or even weeks; other traditional ceremonies required the consent of every member of the family. In other areas or tribes, a wedding or marriage might have only been the decision of two individuals to sleep in the same bed, and start a family. When a Hawaiian couple married in this fashion, if it was their decision to separate, they merely returned to their own families. If they had children together, the offspring would be nurtured by the entire family. These customs would have been viewed by Europeans as largely uncivilized and primitive, considering the strict Christian rules of marriage amongst European men and women.

Rigid and legal religious marriages in Europe, in comparison to these relaxed and free traditions of the Hawaiian people would have naturally been a shock to the British James Cook, or the hypothetical Irish and Spanish visitors. The two cultures would have differed greatly, and the Hawaiian tribes were most likely viewed to be savages with no sense of morality. After James Cook died in Hawaii, his published information about the islands was distributed in several books. This led to several more visitors to the islands; whalers, traders, explorers. It is likely that European women were most likely not introduced to the Hawaiian islands for a great deal of time. The British explorers would have considered a lady amongst an "uncivilized" people, scandalous, improper, and most likely dangerous.

However, had European women been among traders, whalers, or explorers, and witnessed the wedding and marriage practices of Hawaiians, shock would most likely have been prevalent. And then perhaps tinged with envy, for the free nature that men and women were allowed to couple with one another. Fear may have also been a factor. Hawaiian men, with rough clothes if any, would have most likely made any European of possible rape, because of the free nature of their romance with women. Whether or not the fear of rape among visiting European women in the late 1700's is unfounded is just speculation. The more intricate feasts might have been viewed with awe as well. Flowers and family played a major role in traditional antique Hawaiian wedding rituals. Beautiful and pleasantly scented flowers would be hung over the bride and groom's neck in leis and garlands.

European men, on the other hand, might have viewed things from a slightly different angle. Without lawful marriages such as those in the European countries, men may have taken liberties with the Hawaiian women. It is ironic, that the most likely attitude among the whaling men, sailors and businessmen was that it was improper for European women to be among the locals, since it's most likely that European men took advantage of the local Hawaiian women. Hawaiian women may have been seen as nothing more than unattached, and available playthings for men to slake their lust upon, since their Hawaiian marriages were not religious or legally binding. Although it's as of yet hypothetical, there were most likely a large number of Hawaiian-European children born among the Hawaiian islands, once Europe established and maintained contact with the islands.

The reaction from both European genders were also most likely with an entertained attitude. The wedding feasts extending over weeks, dancing, and music, as well as other events that celebrated the act of consummation between bride and groom were positive and festive occasions. There would be much celebration among the families of the bride and groom, as well as friends. Some tribes had a specific day in which all couples with intent to marry could do so; it was treated as a major holiday in the culture. If Europeans were present, they would have been treated most likely with genial welcome or at least tolerant acceptance. It's possible that Europeans would have been entertained from an arrogant angle; considering the wedding rituals of the Hawaiian culture to be a great spectacle, or like a circus of performing animals. The European men and women that were present for the wedding feast or ritual, depending on their background, may have either fully and enthusiastically enjoyed the ceremonies, or have looked on with a more reserved and critical sense of entertainment.

In one sense, the reaction to Hawaiian wedding and marital ceremonies is obvious. Whether it was by coital transference, or by other physical exposure, the Europeans introduced disease to the otherwise isolated islands. It would be naive to believe that none of these disease that were introduced were of the venereal type. European men most likely brought different forms of sexually transmitted diseases, such as syphilis, and gonorrhoea, and passed them along to Hawaiian women, who in turn, propagated the illness by sleeping with Hawaiian men. In the hypothetical case that European women ever slept with Hawaiian men willfully or otherwise, it is possible that European women may have also passed along sexually transmitted disease to the native islanders. Though possible, it is highly unlikely. Either way, the acts that took place in order to spread venereal disease throughout the Hawaiian islands is contingent on a lack of consideration and respect for Hawaiian marriage. This may have been an attitude shared by most, if not all visitors to the islands. In any case, the Hawaiian islands had been isolated from these and other types of diseases brought from Europe. The spread of disease wiped out the majority of the Hawaiian population, regardless of whether or not the liberties taken were the cause of a lack of respect for the traditions of Hawaiian locals, despite that this is the most likely case.

After disease made the population of the Hawaiian islands dwindle so severely, it was much easier for visitors to the islands to influence the small population. In 1820, American missionaries arrived in the islands, and spread the Christian religion throughout the region. This is also a sort of reaction to not only marriage ceremonies and wedding rituals in the Hawaiian culture, but also to the Hawaiian culture in general. In the present time, Gnostic and others of different religions can see that forcing other cultures to embrace a religion is not tolerant behaviour. This was an example of the Christian world and culture's intolerance to the beliefs and Hawaiian culture. Despite this past display of European and American oppression, Hawaii remained a largely independent region, until it willingly joined the United States. Also, despite the intolerance and arrogance shown to the Hawaiian religious and spiritual practices, many of the Hawaiian traditions remain intact today. Sixty percent of the Hawaiian population remains of "other" religious belief, while less than thirty percent embrace Christianity. Gradually, the traditional Hawaiian wedding ceremonies have merged with Christian wedding ceremonies, and like the rest of the United States, it is a legally binding contract. However, Hawaii also retains the power of common law marriage, along with a few other states in the U.S.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Wedding Decorations Ideas

Decorations

A truly artistic wedding décor would often go beyond just ordinary balloons and flowers. In order to make an impressively typical wedding decorations then make it yourself. You can look for different ideas and items in order to decorate your reception in rather a non typical area. This would mean looking beyond the usual wedding supply stores as it would also make you use little more imagination. This is just the way how the wedding consultants in business approach a wedding decoration and it exactly how they manage to achieve those outstanding individualized a unique look for every wedding they work on. You can also opt for the same idea.

Wedding Decoration Shopping Ideas

However, when you thing creatively and start shopping for your wedding decorations in some unlikely places you would also save a lot of money along the way. This is basically because you would avoid those strange little incidents which make you feel that anything sold with the basic purpose of wedding would automatically come with a radically inflated price tag. You can also watch for clearance sales from seasonal merchandise that can also be included in your wedding decorations. The best time to get bargains on decorations for the upcoming winter, fall or Christmas weddings is the post Christmas season. However, right now most of the stores are also clearing themed commodities at bargain basement prices.

Wedding Decoration Theme

Although your wedding decoration budget might get a bit expensive you can prefer a black and white wedding decoration theme. This theme would actually give your wedding decoration a personal and professional touch although not having to spend much. A colorful wedding theme might not always display most of the colours but a black and white wedding decorating theme would display the best of wedding colours. With this wedding decoration theme you can either opt to cover the tables with black material in order to avoid stains as you can cover the seats with white material. The wedding favors for this decoration theme would include similar gifts, dresses, vases and cake. Apart from this you can also prefer to include some unique wedding favors that match the wedding decoration theme.

Wedding Rope Light Display

You can also add some elegant and dramatic touch to your wedding decorations using rope light displays. These wedding rope light displays are available in a variety of colours and styles as some of the favorite include doves, bells and hearts. You can just plug them and you would get a spectacular lighted wedding decoration. Most of the wedding light ropes are for both indoors and outdoors and it makes it easy for you to decorate them. You can place one just above the party table, near the entry way to the reception area or even at the dance floor. You can also accent them with some light strings on white wire and you would be pleased with your wedding decoration. As an added benefit these wedding rope light displays can also be used at any other occasion as they are just meant for decoration.
Hawaiian weddings

Tuesday, April 08, 2008

Art Theme Wedding in hawaii

There are many ways to celebrate your upcoming wedding, but for something truly unique, yet elegant and beautiful, consider a fine art themed wedding. Focus on your favorite artists, your favorite art genre, or just art in general to set the stage for a colorful and meaningful wedding.

First, you want to find a location that expresses your theme. You can hold your wedding reception in some museums, so if you have a favorite museum, contact them and see if they can accommodate a wedding reception. Some museums have rooms set aside for this type of event, but others will allow you to choose a gallery and bring in to that particular gallery all of the things you will need for your wedding.

If you do not live near a museum that is able to make this type of accommodation, you can contact local art galleries to see if they will host a reception for you. But even if you cannot find a museum or a gallery, or if your budget won’t allow for this type of expenditure, don’t despair! You can download pictures of your favorite works of art from the internet or buy prints of favorite pieces to use in decorating whatever location you choose. You can find inexpensive photo frames that have a rich look in just about any discount store, and you can use them to make a gallery at any reception location.

When thinking wedding attire, you can really go one of two ways. In thinking “fine art”, most people will think there is an elegant attitude to the occasion and dress up – meaning a formal white wedding gown and a tuxedo. You could opt for a more Bohemian look, however, and give the event more of a starving artist feel. Even in a white gown, though, you can add touches of a more artistic nature. Choose to have a beautiful accent in a bold color like red or purple added to your gown, either around a sweetheart neckline or down the back in to the train. If you are having your gown custom made, choose an aspect of a favorite painting and see if there is a way to incorporate it into the embroidery or beading on your gown.

Bridesmaid dresses can take on any color you choose, or go with a print that reflects a more artistic mood. You can find gowns in floral and abstract prints that might call to mind the works of a favorite artist and give your attendants more of a themed look. Ushers and groomsmen can opt for a solid tuxedo, dressed up with floral or abstract print accessories to complement the bridesmaids. The groom can be as crisp and clean as an artists’ palette in all white, or as elegant and timeless as a work of art in a traditional tux.

You may want to keep your floral bouquets simple if you are going to use the art work as a backdrop to your reception. People will appreciate the décor more if they are not distracted by large and colorful bouquets. If, however, you are hoping to use the bouquets to reflect the art theme, choose the flowers from a particular work of art or series of works and use those flowers for the bouquets.

Table decorations could be small, framed prints of your favorite pieces. Surround them with beautiful votive holders that pick up the colors in the art itself. Or name each table for a particular artist, and use flowers that reflect some of the works of art in that artist’s collection.

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A fun thing to do for your dinner might be to have stations themed after the areas of the world your favorite artists are from. You could have a French station, an Italian station, an African station – each featuring foods from that particular region. Not only will it be a nod to your famous artists, but it adds a colorful flavor to your reception meal.


HAWAII STATE ART MUSEUM
No. 1 Capitol District Building
250 South Hotel Street, 2nd Floor
Honolulu, HI 96813
(Honolulu / Downtown Area)
Tel. (808) 586-0900
The Hawaii State Art Museum (HiSAM) offers an exciting visual essay of Hawaii's history, cultural identity and current affairs. Free year-round, HiSAM is an open door to the State's vast art collection welcoming the people of Hawaii and visitors who wish to learn more about Hawaii's unique culture and contribution to the arts.

HAWAIIAN ETHNIC ART MUSEUM
59-254 Kamehameha Highway
Haleiwa, HI 96712
(North Shore Oahu)
Tel. (808) 638-7841
Indigenous art; Maui Loa rock image collection. Located at Sunset Beach. Free admission.

A fine art wedding lets you express yourself and your interests in as many different ways as there are forms of fine art. Choose your favorite artist or your favorite piece of art and build your special day around how the art makes you feel. This will lead to an elegant, romantic wedding that you will always reflect fondly on.

by Hawaii wedding guide

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

What Blue Hawaii Wedding does

What we do:

We provide the following coordinating services to all of clients. Some venues may vary depending on the wishes of the bride and groom. Here is a list of some of our services that we provide:

* Arrange wedding site according to package or couples wishes
* Arrange hotel, bed and breakfast, private estate accommodations, and vacation rentals
* Arrange car rental and limousine rentals
* Arrange minister to perform ceremony
* Arrange photographers to shoot ceremony and/or reception
* Arrange videographers to shoot ceremony and/or reception
* Arrange musicians for ceremony and/or reception
* Arrange disc jockeys for reception
* Arrange special entertainment such as hula dancers, m.c.'s, etc.
* Arrange tuxedo rentals
* Arrange bridal gown designs appointments
* Arrange for bridal flowers, leis, bouquets
* Arrange for decorations for chapels, churches, and reception tables
* Arrange for wedding accessories, guests books, favors, wedding cameras, wishing bubbles, butterfly.gif (2743 bytes)butterfly release, rainbow pigeon release, and much more!
* Arrange for wedding cakes, wedding cake toppers, pick up and deliver and return equipment
* Arrange for party rentals, tables, chairs, linen, champagne fountains, wedding arches, tents, etc.
* Arrange for professional caterers or hotel banquet rooms with couples choice of menus
* Arrange for beauty salons, spa and massage services, etc.
* Arrange private wedding dinners for 2
* Arrange honeymoon activities such as snorkeling, helicopter rides, horseback riding, land tours, etc.
* Arrange receptions sites, such as hotel banquet rooms, private estates, etc.
* Arrange marriage license appointments for marriage license with agents
* Pick up and deliver supplies as needed for ceremony and/or reception
* On site wedding coordinator at wedding ceremony and/or reception site
* Arrange air travel and hotel accommodations
* We will also refer you to another wedding professional if we are unable to confirm your dates.
* For event coordination see our events directory
Specializing in Kauai Beach Weddings